You win some, you lose some. That relates to a lot of things.

Everyone needs to stand on their own two feet to solve their own problems. Never give your problems to someone else on a silver platter for them to solve it for you. Problems are always easily solved with a simple meet up to talk. Okay, its not exactly easy, but always better. I always believe its always more sincere to talk to someone face to face and not thru an electronic device like a phone. You get to see the person's reaction, who that person is with and if that person is actually lying. A phone call is just a cowardly act of making things "better".

Adding to that, never interfere with something that you did not start or was never involved in the first place. Don't, actually never make it your own mission in life to make their problems yours as well. Let them solve their own problems. Do not make a small issue a huge one just to ease your pride.

People need a wake up call once in awhile. To remind them that there is something going on. If it has gone on for months.. or even years? Something is already wrong. And to have more thn one person agree? THERE DEFINITELY IS SOMETHING WRONG. A good intention can sometimes be misinterpreted, just by a simple statement. Well, thats life for you everybody.

Being stood up is a norm in everyone's life. Everyone has gone thru it, more than once and sometimes more than a person can handle or even tolerate. So let's put it this way.. will you remain patient despite being nice to the person who has time and again stood you up? Majority will say no. If it has happened countless times, it becomes a part of your life especially if you keep using the same excuse. Like a routine. People do get tired of hearing the same old thing. No one, i repeat no one should even be okay with it happening over and over again. It is NOT normal. It is NOT supposed to be a part of life. It IS a problem. A problem should be always be addressed and not ignored. Its like a tree. It starts from a seed. You keep watering it, providing it a space to grow, enough sunlight and it becomes a huge tree. A problem once ignored and letting it be, becomes a tree. Figuratively speaking of course.

No one wishes to be told they are wrong. Who does? But never ever, try to be right and not admitting to the mistake. Everyone has their ego. Be it huge or even small like an ant. Make sure to bring it down when you have done something wrong. Its as simple as that. Admitting to the mistake is the first step. Don't add on to the problem and making it even harder to solve. Running away from it is even worst.

Try and realise the mistakes especially if someone has put in plain sight for you to see. Nothing is hard if you try. Good luck.

With love,
Shasha.